The other half and I have been quite busy for the past few weeks with life in general that we’ve forgotten that our wedding anniversary is fast approaching. 5 more days to our 13th wedding anniversary, macam tak caya aje, hehehe. Last year we completely forgot about it until the day itself. Yang buat teringat tu pun sebab his ‘palm’ reminded him of the date and his parents wished us a happy anniversary, hahahaha. My in laws are not that good with dates but they remembered our wedding anniversary because it’s the same date as theirs, hehehehe. The other half chose that date sebab dia kata nak same date dengan his parents so senang nak ingat, but still gak terlupa! :-). But I couldn’t blame him for forgetting sebab I pun terlupa sama, hehehehe. People say that the husbands/ male species yang selalu lupa and tak ingat all the important dates in their lives but in our household, I fall into that category as well :-). Bukan tak ingat, I will always remember all the important dates but kadang2 tu bila dah berlalu baru teringat, hehehehe, unless I put a big star on the calendar or I happen to check my Yahoo on that day :-).
The first year anniversary was eagerly awaited by us and sambut sikit nya romantik ke but as the years go by, we didn’t make a big deal of the date, teruk kan! Lagilah bila dah ada anak2 ni, just sambut at home with a nice dinner and cake with the kids. The same with presents, I guess sebab it’s so difficult to buy things for either of us and the date being so close to Christmas, we normally tak beli anything pun for each other, hehehehe. It doesn’t worry me if the other half doesn’t get me anything for our wedding anniversary, well, it hasn’t worried me so far :-). Tak kuasa I nak merajuk just because of that. Kalau I merajuk pun, bukannya dia pandai pujuk so buang karen aje kalau merajuk dengan dia, wahahahahaha…..
This was our wedding cake. My MIL made the fruit cake inside and then we sent it to a cake decorator to do the decoration. At that time, fruit cakes were the only cakes for wedding cakes (well, for my MIL anyway) so sebagai daughter in law mithali ikut ajelah kehendak dia. If it was up to me, I would probablyhave chosen chocolate cake and it if was up to the other half, probably pavlova, hahahahaha…..
p/s the traditional 13th wedding anniversary gift is lace. I wonder what I should get that has lace in it? 😉 😉